What is up with our military?

I just want to be an officer, I just decided that I wanted to do this at age 14. That was 2 years ago. But you know what I think I am frickin screwed because I haven't been in military programs since age 6 and I don't have parents who damn me to hell If I don't go into military. Annapolis, I am frickin screwed because people were making up their minds in 1st grade. Do I have any hope? I want to do so much more and yet I am restricted, but why? I want some answers, hard core no bull and no kitty. I want the straight facts for answers, all military and everyone I want a open fisted answer. Thanks.